Romantic Destinations in Colorado by Richard Rspad

The Rocky Mountains are full of locations that just ooze romance. The romantic destinations in Colorado are considered some of the best in the country and here are a few highlights.
Romantic Destinations in Colorado
The majesty and beauty of the mountains of Colorado make them an excellent shelter for your next romantic retreat. Snow capped hills with many hiking trails, high clear lakes perfect for swimming and fishing, and ski resorts all offer vacationers to this state activities to keep them busy. Of course, all of that cold mountain air may leave you in the mood to spend some time in front of a roaring fire - which may be the entire point of romantic destinations in Colorado.
The area around the city of Colorado Springs, Colorado is home to many resorts and inns that are extremely welcoming to couples seeking a few nights of romantic solitude. The Our Hearts Inn Bed and Breakfast, which is located in the Old Colorado City historical district of Colorado Springs, is a great retreat for your next romantic stay. The area around the inn is filled with streets dotted with antique shops and other shopping delights, and gourmet restaurants all governed by the vision of Pikes Peak.
While the location of the Our Hearts Inn Bed and Breakfast may be the first thing that grabs your attention, the amenities within the inn are what will make your stay delightful. The cottages that are on the inn's property both include rooms with Jacuzzi tubs for two, so you can make your night extra special. The cottages also include kitchens, and while they're perfect for an intimate stay, the larger size means that they can also accommodate families on extended vacations. The Cottage on the Knob is not actually on the property with the rest of the resort, rather, this Victorian cottage is located in a residential area nearby.
There are three rooms in the main house that can be used for your romantic destinations in Colorado, and other amenities include delicious, home-cooked style breakfasts and an atmosphere that makes you feel cozy and at home. Specials include the Lucky Lover's Gambling Delight, which includes numerous gambling themed treats (like Lotto for Love) as well as wine in room and spa treatments off premises. You can even get breakfast in bed if you choose to stay in a room in the main house!
There are many ways to spend a romantic weekend - and if you are going to be near Colorado, there are also many different spots to spend that weekend in. No matter where you choose to spend your time, romantic destinations in Colorado are sure to warm you up on those cold winter nights!

About the Author
Richard Rspad is with Resort Spa Destinations - reviews and articles on romantic getaways.

Romantic Destinations in Delaware by Richard Rspad

Nothing screams romance like taking in the scenery and old world charm of the New England states. Romantic destinations in Delaware promise privacy and a perfect pace of life.
Romantic Destinations in Delaware
Delaware, located in the Mid Atlantic region of the United States, is a beautiful small gem of a state nestled between New Jersey and Maryland. Bordered by the scenic and relaxing Delaware Bay, as well as having a partial coastline on the Atlantic Ocean, Delaware is an often overlooked spot for a vacation. For those seeking a trip as a couple, however, this small state has much to offer. Cozy inns and other resorts nestled in this area offer many different spots for romantic destinations in Delaware.
If you are looking for a truly luxurious yet relaxing and intimate place to stay, try the Inn at Montchanin, located right outside of Wilmington, Delaware. This resort is far more than just a place to stay at night. Montchanin is actually a village that exists as a historical monument to times gone by. The 11 houses and other buildings in the Montchanin Village have been restored and, where needed, recreated to their original forms. These buildings date from between the year 1799 to the year 1910. The entire village was once part of the Winarthur estate.
The Inn at Montchanin is itself part of the landscape here. Each of the 28 guest rooms and suites is housed in one of the 11 historically restored buildings. This allows you to have a truly authentic antique feel to your stay. No two rooms at the Inn are alike, with many of the rooms and suites having their own private courtyard areas or gas fireplaces. Even though the rooms are broken apart (not housed in a single building) you still get the convenience of turn down services, modern amenities such as high speed Internet and cable TV, and a mini bar.
All of the furnishings in the rooms at the Inn at Montchanin are as authentic as possible, adding to the ambiance and making it one of the best romantic destinations in Delaware. There are also package deals available, ranging from the Inn House package (which includes admission to some of the local museums, as well as a dinner and overnight stay) to the Village Romance package. The Romance package offers couples a night's stay, as well as champagne, chocolates and fresh berries presented upon arrival. A breakfast for two is also included.
Staying in a beautifully restored historic area is a perfect way to bring some interest into the romantic destinations of Delaware. The interesting setting, combined with roaring fires and gourmet food, offer lovers a great way to spend a weekend.

About the Author
Richard Rspad is with Resort Spa Destinations - reviews and articles on romantic getaways.

Dating : Gay Online Services by John D Ross

Gay online dating websites have already helped millions of people find their soulmate across the globe. With its increasing popularity, gay online dating services abound on the internet and it is important that a user takes time to find the website that suits them the best.
Gay dating websites usually cater for both gay males and females, although there are some that specialize in one gender or the other. TheGayGuysWorld.com is one such example, though there are also a lot of female members who are most welcome.
Dating is a term that so many people relate to a heterosexual couple and it is a term not a lot of gay people actually use. But in terms of online dating services it appropriately describes the focus of a gay website designed to bring people together.
In this frantic world it can be difficult to find your soulmate; lack of time and lack of opportunity are both valid hurdles we have to jump and gay online dating services are a great option for the busy gay person. There are so few social places where gay people are able to make contact, allowing an opportunity to get to know each other before jumping into a relationship. Many gay people are not all that keen on bars and clubs which are the main meeting places for gays. Having a facility such as that offered at TheGayGuysWorld solves those problems. It allows contact, an opportunity to get to know many other people, to chat and hopefully discover that soulmate one is seeking.
Dating using gay online services also allows a person to seek a soulmate anonymously initially, slowly getting to know another person and revealing oneself over a period of time. Such services have made the life of a gay person so much easier, being assured of an environment of people with the same desires, the same interests, the same needs. It is up to the individual user to find the dating service that offers them what they are seeking.
Gay dating (or same sex) websites can be of various styles, so take your time before signing up with one. For example, there is little point signing up for a gay dating service that is based in America when you live in England, particularly if you are hoping to meet up with your contact in due course. So consider a localized gay dating service. Other sites, such as TheGayGuysWorld offer you a choice on countries on the main page, so you can target specifically your area. Other sites offer the opportunity to contact people with the same sexual interests.
Almost all online dating services offer the various options (male seeking female and vice versa, male seeking male, female seeking female, etc) but I would recommend a gay person go to a specifically gay dating service, thereby eliminating all the other members in whom you have no interest. Just like all specialists (be they the heart specialist, the specialist math teacher etc), you are more likely to find success at a site run by gay people for gay people as they understand our needs.
Most dating sites, such as TheGayGuysWorld are free, and then offer you the opportunity to upgrade to an inexpensive membership in order to make contact with another person. Think about it - if someone is prepared to pay a membership, however large or small, is a good indication that they are serious in their quest to find a soulmate, whereas those you simple stay on the free sites are more than likely 'simply looking'. So do consider becoming a member once you find the gay dating site you feel comfortable with; usually the dating sites offer a range of memberships, generally for a short term (monthly) or longer basis, and fees should not be more than $15 month.
The same as the straight online dating sites do, gay online dating services offer real time chat, emailing, profiling and telephone access, dependant on the members choices so that the members can get to know each other really well in as short a period of time as possible.
As with all online dating services, follow the normal safety procedures: do not disclose your telephone number nor your address, arrange to meet in a public place such as a coffee shop, restaurant or bar, and always tell a friend where you are going; take your cellphone and always use your own car, not theirs. Always.
Gay online dating services are not meant to replace your social life, but they do complement gay peoples lives and gay online dating sites offer more ways to connect with other people, providing more options for more fun and a broader social life generally. Good luck!

About the Author
John Ross is webmaster/owner of three websites serving the gay community including TheGayGuysWorld.com, the gay online dating service.

Top 10 Excuses People Make For Dating Failure (Part Two) by Scot McKay

Last week we talked about the first five of the "Top Ten Excuses" single adults make for dropping out of the dating pool. Today we'll cover the second half of the list. Fair warning-the bottom half of the list is even more hard-hitting than the first five, so fasten your seat belts. If you are making excuses for dating failure, prepare to be challenged...in the best possible way!
The first five "excuses" centered around physical limitations, advanced age, kids, game playing and finances. Let's continue where we left off:
1) Shyness
If words are hard to come by and meeting people is not easy, you certainly aren't alone. For better or worse, women still largely expect men to approach them first, so men especially have to get around shyness. This is probably the #1 excuse men give (along with the next one), and citing it can only point to one thing: you simply lack the guts to go for it. Women love men who are confident, and being able to start a conversation with an attractive woman is a key indicator of this. So guys, you just have to find the courage to make conversations happen. There are innumerable books and articles written on this elsewhere, but the best place to start is simply to make conversation with waitresses, bank tellers and any other women you meet during the course of daily life. Once you realize they will be friendly back, you are on the road to getting over shyness. If, on the other hand, you find women are NOT responding well, it's time to address creepiness-because women will normally respond very favorably (if not necessarily romantically) to any man who is friendly and non-threatening.
Ladies if you find yourself clamming up when an interesting guy approaches you, the same concept holds true. Just treat the conversation as if with anyone you've already known for years. Easier said than done, I realize, but again practice makes perfect.
2) Fear Of Rejection
Ah yes...the second excuse that men so often make. Our poor egos would be sooo bruised if a woman fails to validate us. The quickest cure for this is for a guy to begin to view approaching women as an opportunity to validate HER as a potential friend rather than a "do or die" referendum on whether she "accepts" him or not. That way, there's really no "rejection" involved, is there? The prevailing scenario is-again-that typically women will be friendly to guys who aren't obnoxious or creepy. If they are in fact rude to a guy who approaches, my feeling is that the guy dodged a serious bullet. Who wants to get stuck with a rude woman?
Fear of rejection can manifest itself even after a relationship is rolling. If we've been "dumped" a few times in a row it's easy to give up on dating altogether. Once again, asking the right questions ASAP in a relationship can help make sure differences in goals don't show up later. It's also important to look in the mirror if we get dumped time and again-especially if for no apparent reason. Are you giving vibes that you might not be trustworthy long term? Have you become less personable as your "true colors" are shown? Are you pushing too hard for commitment too early? All of these are GREAT reasons to get "dumped". Make sure you aren't perpetrating your own revolving-door relationships.
3) Risk
Schedule a few dates in public places and you'll soon realize that most of your dates aren't "dangerous"...even the ones you meet online. Once such "physical risks" are mitigated, consider emotional risks carefully. If you are afraid of "getting hurt" consider the types of people most likely to inflict emotional pain and avoid them. This means asking the right questions regarding what is expected out of a 'relationship' and-quite simply-not becoming emotionally attached to someone with a different agenda. Will you ever be able to take all "risk" off the table? No. But as Tennyson is so often quoted as saying, "it's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all." Believe that, and you've cured yourself of this excuse...especially when you realize just how much lower the "risk factors" can truly be when the right conversations happen from the beginning.
4) "No Man Can Handle Me"
This is the mantra of smart, successful and / or strong willed women everywhere. Don't "dumb down" for anyone, but do make an effort to position yourself where you have the opportunity to meet guys who meet your standards. I'll be the first to acknowledge that sitting at the top of the bell curve means that your dating options are limited as a woman in particular. But you can and will meet a man you can respect...if you are determined. Don't give up.
5) Disdain For The Opposite Sex
Well, I hope that it comes as no surprise that people who really can't stand the opposite gender have a tough time finding someone of that demographic who is willing to commit to them. When spelled out so clearly it actually sounds silly, doesn't it? If your sexual orientation is straight yet you don't like the opposite sex much, plan on being very lonely until that is dealt with. Argue with me if you so choose, but my personal experience is that people who don't like the opposite sex are typically hard to get along with for members of their OWN gender also. Go figure.
Healthy relationships are one of life's greatest gifts. Everything we do here at X & Y Communications revolves around that principle. Instead of "giving up" in the face of doubt, the better response is to make the effort to deserve what you want. Through doing that the weakness imposed upon us by excuses for failure are transformed into power by virtue of taking responsibility for our own success. Cool, huh?
As I mentioned, this is a three-part series. But we've covered the top ten excuses people give for dating failures already, right? I believe that there is an even greater specter looming so large over the lives of many people that the shadow it casts requires a discussion unto itself. Its diabolical power to keep people mired in loneliness will be exposed and unraveled in the next issue.

About the Author
Scot McKay's dating strategies are found at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/ . Stop by right now and grab a FREE e-book ($20 value) when you sign up for the X & Y Communications Newsletter, which is always packed with unique and practical dating tips.

How to attract a Beautiful Woman - Top 3 tips by BRGE

How to attract a Beautiful Woman - Top 3 tips
Are you sick of not being able to attract the type of women you are looking for? Do you want to be able to attract beautiful women? I am about to give you the top 3 tips on how to attract a beautiful woman.
The first tip to attracting a beautiful woman is to have confidence. Women can always tell when a man is confident and they are very attracted to confidence. That is why women are attracted to a man they cannot have. He already has a woman and that makes him have confidence, which attracts women.
The second tip to attracting beautiful women is to be honest. Women can always tell when you are lying and they can sense it so you have to be honest or they will know. Women also appreciate honesty and in the long run you will thank me for this tip. Always be honest with women and you will have not issues along the way.
The last tip to attracting beautiful women is to grow some balls. You have to initiate everything with the really attractive women because they know men notice them and other men with initiate it if you don't. Starting conversations with women is not the easiest thing, but it can be done and it will get you more dates with beautiful women than you could ever imagine.
Attracting beautiful women is not the hardest thing in the world to do and if you follow these tips you will have a lot of great dates with beautiful women. Good luck and build up your confidence so that you can talk to more beautiful women more often.

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Dating & Romance by John Nicholas

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Finding Your Soul Mate by Sean Getz

ALWAYS look your best for finding your soul mate. I know this sounds REALLY obvious but you'd be surprised by how many men don't understand the importance of this simple tip. You never know when a chance for finding your soul mate will turn up, or where. And it's become a bit of a cliché because it's true -- first impressions for finding your soul mate really do count.
Here are some figures to consider from my studies on finding your soul mate.
If you make a GOOD first impression when finding your soul mate, you have a 90% chance of EVER getting with her at that point (10% of women for whatever reason will be unreachable for most men at ANY point - she might like women herself etc).
If you make a BAD first impression when you think you are finding your soul mate your chances with her reduce drastically to just 20%. This means that to make her attracted to you AFTER the first 3 minutes of meeting her will be incredibly difficult if her first impressions of you were bad.
It's the difference between climbing a mountain and using a helicopter to fly up one. Good first impressions when finding your soul mate means you're on your way to the top in the helicopter, bad first impressions when finding your soul mate means you have a difficult climb to success - no helicopters for you.
Honestly, I can't stress this enough -- always try to look your best when finding your soul mate.
The top 5 S's of first impressions for finding your soul mate.
Shave. Shower. Stylish. Smell. Shoes.
Remember these 5 S's and always take care of them before you go finding your soul mate.
Why are shoes my number 5 S?
Your shoes are the FIRST thing a woman really notices about your clothing and hence your appearance. Make sure your shoes are clean and fashionable.
What you wear when finding your soul mate is very important. I could try to recommend a certain look but as with all things fashionable by the time you read this it may have changed.
Get the latest GQ magazine or other fashionable men's magazine's and imitate the styles you see there -- most women don't really care what labels you are wearing as long as you look good so you don't have to spend the Earth on clothing when finding your soul mate.
Many guys that dress better usually comment on how strange they feel wearing clothes they are uncomfortable in, but nine times out of 10 they start to feel natural and even confident wearing their new wardrobe within days.
Make sure you smell good when finding your soul mate. Again this is extremely important. Remember how you feel when a woman walks by you and she smells soooo good - you feel an instant attraction even though you don't know her - well, that's how women feel too.
Wear a good-quality cologne, but don't spray too much when finding your soul mate.
One squirt on both sides of the neck, and one squirt on both wrists -- maximum. You don't want to smell too overpowering when finding your soul mate.
I recommend cool water by Davidoff or John Paul Gautier for Men (often called JPG love juice because women love it) if they don't sell it where you are try to order some from abroad, this stuff is GREAT for finding your soul mate!
And here's a GREAT little SECRET that I have found will help you actually pickup about 24% of women without SAYING a word to them! Not a single word! And NO rejection either. You won't find this anywhere else either. What you need to do is...
Go to www.FindingYourSoulMate.com to find out what the Great Secret is and how you can apply it to finding your soul mate.

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Go to www.FindingYourSoulMate.com to learn how to meet and communicate with women so you can find your soul mate!

How Do I Find A Girlfriend? by Nick Shane

How Do I Find A Girlfriend?
You are struggling to find a girlfriend and don't know what you are doing wrong to attract women?
Ok look ...
This is actually pretty simple if you know what women are looking for in a guy. To be honest, I can tell you right now WHY you haven't found a girlfriend yet.
See, you may have found a special woman you WOULD LIKE to be with, but she just doesn't feel attracted to you.
She does NOT feel the same way towards you than you do to her.
How come?
Because you didn't give a woman what she needs to feel sexually attracted to you. She may think you're a nice guy and a good friend, but that's as far as it goes. She doesn't see you as a potential boyfriend or lover.
And that really sucks ... so we need to change that.
So what are you doing wrong? What is it that makes women tell you that "you are a nice guy, but not really for her"?
Well for once...you are a god-damn wussbag!
A woman doesn't reject a man if he doesn't have anything to offer to a her like money, a muscular body, a fancy sports-car and good-looks. That's not the case even thought everybody thinks that way.
It's not because women think you are a weirdo or you dress like a bum.
It's not because you think all those stunning women are out of your league.
There I something else.
You haven't found a girlfriend or a woman that loves you for who you are because you are just being yourself...no, no.
It's because women don't like men who act like wimps and clingy nice-guys.
Now...READ MY LIPS: You are a wimp!!
See, you have been YOURSELF all your life...and has it worked? Not really. But you don't want to become a different person either and I respect that. The good thing is, you won't have to change at all ... you just need to IMPROVE!
I need to show you what really works with women, and give you the necessary knowledge and some of my killer dating tips that actually work in the real world.
Not just any kind of dating tips...I am going to show you how ANYBODY, regardless of how rich, tall or handsome you are can meet and date the kind of women you always wanted!
So why don't you have a girlfriend yet?
Because nobody has ever told you what to do to successfully attract women. How could you? Most men aren't born with the gift of making women laugh, giggle and sweeping them off their feet.
It is an art, and if you've never really understood why women pick certain men over others, you have some learning to do.
So here's what I want you to do:
STOP being a wuss!
Don't kiss a woman's ass.
Don't buy them drinks.
Don't pay them any compliments.
Don't invite them to dinner or to the movies.
Don't bring flowers, chocolate, a cuddly-toy or ANYTHING at all!
It only shows a woman that you are a clingy, needy nice-guy who wants to BUY a woman's affection...and attraction cannot be bought, EVER!
If you do, she will either walk all over you or just tell you that you are a nice guy, but "let's rather be friends!". And here's another thing. The more you want sex from her, a long-term relationship or even just a kiss ... the less you will get it.
Women don't like what they can have right away. If you are too pushy, needy and "easy-to-get", you are not a challenge for any woman and therefore BORING!
The key is to be interesting!
So STOP what you are doing RIGHT NOW...and get it right! http://www.playboyskool.com?a_aid=the_clash_1977

About the Author
Nick Shane is a street-smart Dating-Expert and author of the book "Playboyskool" and several other products that help regular guys like YOU become more successful with women and dating. Get his FREE online Dating Tips newsletter at http://www.playboyskool.com?a_aid=the_clash_1977

The Ultimate Mistake Men Make With Women by Nick Shane

The Ultimate Mistake Men Make With Women
Okay listen up...
I am going to reveal to you the number #1 mistake men make when it comes to attracting and dating beautiful women.
What do you think is the reason why most guys out there just can't get a date, a number or a kiss from a woman?
It's because they treat every single woman like a princess and put them on a pedestal ... whereas they should really treat them like their little bratty sister. This is what gets women attracted and fall in love with you.
If you act like a clingy, needy nice-guy then no wonder women tell you that they just want to be friends with you.
When you see an attractive woman, what do you do to get her attention? Do you go up to her and pay her a compliment? Do you ask her if she wants a drink? Do you tell her how beautiful she is? Do you introduce yourself and ask what her name is?
Man, why do you make me bang my head on my keyboard? You won't get a woman to give you her phone number like that! Now look, most guys think that to successfully attract a woman, you need to be nice to them, drive a sports car, have a load of cash in your wallet and work out every week just to look a bit like Arnold.
You couldn't be more wrong. It's all bullshit!
In fact, you may have just made the biggest mistake in your life when it comes to women and dating. Every guy on this planet has been brainwashed into the belief that women will want to be with you if you are nice to them, treat them like a princess and pay for drinks and dinner.
You couldn't be further from the truth. But it's not your fault. Blame TV, Hollywood and magazines. You have been conditioned to believe that this is what makes women get attracted to you.
Now listen, me and many of my friends who are true ladies-men aren't rich, good looking or handsome. We're just regular guys like you.
But we can get so many phone numbers from women one single day you wouldn't even believe me if I told you.
So what's our secret? How do we do it?
It's because we tease women, we accuse them of hitting on us, bust their balls and are cheeky when we talk to them. We are the complete opposite of what a clingy nice-guy does. We don't offer them drinks, we don't pay compliments and we certainly don't invite them to a romantic candle light dinner.
And guess what?
They LOVE us for that. Women get attracted and want to be with men that are different from all the other guys they have dated in the past...and we give them precisely that.
So if you want to be able to do the same and literally get women to fight for YOUR attention, start treating them like your bratty little sister and say "HEY! Will you stop staring at my ass all the time? I'm not a sex-object you know?"
Once you truly GET IT what makes women attracted to men, you can write your own ticket in the dating world.
Keep it up! http://www.playboyskool.com?a_aid=the_clash_1977

About the Author
Nick Shane is a street-smart Dating-Expert and author of the book "Playboyskool" and several other products that help regular guys like YOU become more successful with women and dating. Get his FREE online Dating Tips newsletter at http://www.playboyskool.com?a_aid=the_clash_1977

The Ultimate Mistake Men Make With Women by Nick Shane

The Ultimate Mistake Men Make With Women
Okay listen up...
I am going to reveal to you the number #1 mistake men make when it comes to attracting and dating beautiful women.
What do you think is the reason why most guys out there just can't get a date, a number or a kiss from a woman?
It's because they treat every single woman like a princess and put them on a pedestal ... whereas they should really treat them like their little bratty sister. This is what gets women attracted and fall in love with you.
If you act like a clingy, needy nice-guy then no wonder women tell you that they just want to be friends with you.
When you see an attractive woman, what do you do to get her attention? Do you go up to her and pay her a compliment? Do you ask her if she wants a drink? Do you tell her how beautiful she is? Do you introduce yourself and ask what her name is?
Man, why do you make me bang my head on my keyboard? You won't get a woman to give you her phone number like that! Now look, most guys think that to successfully attract a woman, you need to be nice to them, drive a sports car, have a load of cash in your wallet and work out every week just to look a bit like Arnold.
You couldn't be more wrong. It's all bullshit!
In fact, you may have just made the biggest mistake in your life when it comes to women and dating. Every guy on this planet has been brainwashed into the belief that women will want to be with you if you are nice to them, treat them like a princess and pay for drinks and dinner.
You couldn't be further from the truth. But it's not your fault. Blame TV, Hollywood and magazines. You have been conditioned to believe that this is what makes women get attracted to you.
Now listen, me and many of my friends who are true ladies-men aren't rich, good looking or handsome. We're just regular guys like you.
But we can get so many phone numbers from women one single day you wouldn't even believe me if I told you.
So what's our secret? How do we do it?
It's because we tease women, we accuse them of hitting on us, bust their balls and are cheeky when we talk to them. We are the complete opposite of what a clingy nice-guy does. We don't offer them drinks, we don't pay compliments and we certainly don't invite them to a romantic candle light dinner.
And guess what?
They LOVE us for that. Women get attracted and want to be with men that are different from all the other guys they have dated in the past...and we give them precisely that.
So if you want to be able to do the same and literally get women to fight for YOUR attention, start treating them like your bratty little sister and say "HEY! Will you stop staring at my ass all the time? I'm not a sex-object you know?"
Once you truly GET IT what makes women attracted to men, you can write your own ticket in the dating world.
Keep it up! http://www.playboyskool.com?a_aid=the_clash_1977

About the Author
Nick Shane is a street-smart Dating-Expert and author of the book "Playboyskool" and several other products that help regular guys like YOU become more successful with women and dating. Get his FREE online Dating Tips newsletter at http://www.playboyskool.com?a_aid=the_clash_1977

Why Women Never Call You After a Date by Nick Shane

Why Women Never Call You After a Date
Have you ever wondered why a woman never texts or calls you after you have been out on a date together?
I bet you start to think she hasn't had a good time, she doesn't like you, you are not good enough for her or she finds your company boring or not exciting enough.
Probably all of that.
I could start to tell you that one bad date won't affect the way she feels about you or how attracted she is to you, but I'd be lying. Especially if this is the first date you have with your new woman, it could all be over before it even really started.
A woman will make up her mind about you in a flash. Not intentionally, but sub-consciously! And not only women do that, men do it as well.
I mean, you made your mind up about her instantly. You decided that within just a few minutes or even seconds of seeing or talking to her that you felt sexually attracted to her.
So unless you made a good impression to start with she wont be interested in you.
Now what about the moments leading up to the date? Did you decide where to go or did you ASK HER?
Let me guess, you acted like the perfect gentleman and told her that she could decide ... just to be polite, nice and respectful?
Oh dude, you have so much to learn about women, she was probably dreading the date from that moment on. She was attracted to you in the beginning, that's why she agreed to go on a date with you ... but you just KILLED all the attraction within a second.
When you ASK a woman something like this, she will get annoyed at you. Why? Because you are not different from all the other guys she has dated in the past.
So after that false start, where did you go?
Dinner?
Movies?
Great, you are well on the way to becoming your towns most unattractive, unoriginal and most boring date. Listen, every guy takes a woman out to a nice restaurant or to the cinema. Did she sleep and eventually go out with all those guys? I wouldn't bet on it, so what makes you think you will have a chance if you do EXACTLY the same?
Think man, think: you have to be DIFFERENT!
Look, I will even admit that when you have been going out for maybe 3 months or so, taking your partner out to dinner isn't a bad idea, but for crying out lout don't do it on the first couple of dates.
Going to the cinema is pretty similar. Again, you hit a big cliché and what are you going to do? You can't talk through the movie and don't even think about pulling that lame arm over the shoulder trick. This isn't Hollywood, this is the 21st century ... and yes it is just lame. (If you want to wrap your arm around her effectively, just do it by saying "c'mere ...")
Oh, and another thing: Did you ask to kiss her?
If you did, then I should bitchslap your butt right where it came from. NEVER ask, just do it. Women don't like it if you put the big decisions into their hands. You are the man, and YOU have to lead and take charge of situations so the woman can follow.
So next time, take her window shopping where you can tease her all day long or go roller blading in the park. If you still don't know how to effectively kiss a woman, just stop talking, move your hand towards her neck and if she smiles and gets those shiny eyes ...you can lean in and kiss her gently.
But if you delivered just another stereotypical date like every other guy, you will share the same destiny like all the other men she has dated: "You're a very nice guy and I had a great time, but let's just be friends"
To sum this up real quick: Why do women never call you after a date? Why should they ... you were just like every other guy she has dated in the past: nothing else but boring. Why would any woman want to see you again?
Think about it! http://www.playboyskool.com?a_aid=the_clash_1977

About the Author
Nick Shane is a street-smart Dating-Expert and author of the book "Playboyskool" and several other products that help regular guys like YOU become more successful with women and dating. Get his FREE online Dating Tips newsletter at http://www.playboyskool.com?a_aid=the_clash_1977

Why Women Never Call You After a Date by Nick Shane

Why Women Never Call You After a Date
Have you ever wondered why a woman never texts or calls you after you have been out on a date together?
I bet you start to think she hasn't had a good time, she doesn't like you, you are not good enough for her or she finds your company boring or not exciting enough.
Probably all of that.
I could start to tell you that one bad date won't affect the way she feels about you or how attracted she is to you, but I'd be lying. Especially if this is the first date you have with your new woman, it could all be over before it even really started.
A woman will make up her mind about you in a flash. Not intentionally, but sub-consciously! And not only women do that, men do it as well.
I mean, you made your mind up about her instantly. You decided that within just a few minutes or even seconds of seeing or talking to her that you felt sexually attracted to her.
So unless you made a good impression to start with she wont be interested in you.
Now what about the moments leading up to the date? Did you decide where to go or did you ASK HER?
Let me guess, you acted like the perfect gentleman and told her that she could decide ... just to be polite, nice and respectful?
Oh dude, you have so much to learn about women, she was probably dreading the date from that moment on. She was attracted to you in the beginning, that's why she agreed to go on a date with you ... but you just KILLED all the attraction within a second.
When you ASK a woman something like this, she will get annoyed at you. Why? Because you are not different from all the other guys she has dated in the past.
So after that false start, where did you go?
Dinner?
Movies?
Great, you are well on the way to becoming your towns most unattractive, unoriginal and most boring date. Listen, every guy takes a woman out to a nice restaurant or to the cinema. Did she sleep and eventually go out with all those guys? I wouldn't bet on it, so what makes you think you will have a chance if you do EXACTLY the same?
Think man, think: you have to be DIFFERENT!
Look, I will even admit that when you have been going out for maybe 3 months or so, taking your partner out to dinner isn't a bad idea, but for crying out lout don't do it on the first couple of dates.
Going to the cinema is pretty similar. Again, you hit a big cliché and what are you going to do? You can't talk through the movie and don't even think about pulling that lame arm over the shoulder trick. This isn't Hollywood, this is the 21st century ... and yes it is just lame. (If you want to wrap your arm around her effectively, just do it by saying "c'mere ...")
Oh, and another thing: Did you ask to kiss her?
If you did, then I should bitchslap your butt right where it came from. NEVER ask, just do it. Women don't like it if you put the big decisions into their hands. You are the man, and YOU have to lead and take charge of situations so the woman can follow.
So next time, take her window shopping where you can tease her all day long or go roller blading in the park. If you still don't know how to effectively kiss a woman, just stop talking, move your hand towards her neck and if she smiles and gets those shiny eyes ...you can lean in and kiss her gently.
But if you delivered just another stereotypical date like every other guy, you will share the same destiny like all the other men she has dated: "You're a very nice guy and I had a great time, but let's just be friends"
To sum this up real quick: Why do women never call you after a date? Why should they ... you were just like every other guy she has dated in the past: nothing else but boring. Why would any woman want to see you again?
Think about it! http://www.playboyskool.com?a_aid=the_clash_1977

About the Author
Nick Shane is a street-smart Dating-Expert and author of the book "Playboyskool" and several other products that help regular guys like YOU become more successful with women and dating. Get his FREE online Dating Tips newsletter at http://www.playboyskool.com?a_aid=the_clash_1977

Can Average Guys Attract Hot Women? by Nick Shane

Can Average Guys Attract Hot Women?
Every man thinks he will never have a chance of dating a really beautiful woman. All I get to hear is excuse after excuse such as "Well, she is just out of my league" or "I don't think I'm rich or good looking enough". What a load of horseshit!
Look ...
First of all me and all of my friends are not rich, not famous and we certainly don't have model looks. We just know all the tricks, techniques and secret knowledge to attract and pull women left, right and center.
Are we special? No not at all. We just know how the dating game is played.
Have you ever noticed that there are certain men out there who seem to have a natural talent when it comes to women? Whenever they are having a conversation with a hot woman, they talk in a very different style and tone than when they would be talking to me, you or his buddies.
And women seem to be loving it. They smile, giggle and start to touch his arm all the time.
What do these guys do that makes women attracted to them so quickly? I tell you what it is: It's called being CHEEKY!
You see, women don't respond sexually to guys who pay them compliments, act overly nice and try to invite them to a coffee right away. Women ignore these guys.
But whenever a man who is slightly arrogant, cocky and cheeky to them comes along they seem to get attracted to him within seconds. In fact, every woman is just WAITING for him to ask for her phone number so she can go on a date with him.
These guys aren't particularly handsome and they don't drive a fancy sports car either. They just know how to talk to women so they get sexually attracted to them.
You have to learn that paying compliments, being polite and nice to women just doesn't hit those emotional trigger buttons that gets them attracted. But if you are a cheeky and cocky towards them, the magic happens.
So how do you do this?
Simple: Whenever you are talking to a woman, act just a bit arrogant but make a joke out of it. Here's an example:
"You know, has mommy never told you not to stare at cute guys like me? You are sooo bad you know that?" BAM, she's hooked!
The secret of attracting beautiful women really isn't how much money you got or how good looking you are, it's how fast you can push a woman's buttons that make her attracted to you.
Now start practicing! http://www.playboyskool.com?a_aid=the_clash_1977

About the Author
Nick Shane is a street-smart Dating-Expert and author of the book "Playboyskool" and several other products that help regular guys like YOU become more successful with women and dating. Get his FREE online Dating Tips newsletter at http://www.playboyskool.com?a_aid=the_clash_1977

How To Approach And Meet Women by Nick Shane

How To Approach And Meet Women
Guys always get REALLY worried when it comes to approaching women. They always seem to think something bad is going to happen. The funny thing is, there are some little known secrets that NEVER fail when approaching a woman and the best part is I have perfected and taught ALL of them.
We all have fears in life for a reason.
Take a fear of water for instance. Some people are afraid of water because they have had a bad experience with it. Some of them might have nearly drowned, others might have been attacked by a shark and some might have just choked when drinking water.
Now take a fear of approaching women. At some point in your life you became very self conscious or someone rejected you and you found it very humiliating and embarrassing.
Maybe you had a crush one a girl in high school and she stood you up for prom. Maybe you fell in love with a woman at work and when you asked her out, she told you she just wasn't attracted to you.
Bad experiences will leave their mark on you. And if you never really had any GOOD experiences with women either, then you will just beat yourself up. So we need to change that right now.
So if you still feel uncomfortable talking or approaching women, have a look at it from a different point of view: The reasons why most men don't approach women are always the same:
What is she doesn't like me? I don't want to look like a fool. I will feel very bad about it if I get rejected again. What should I say anyway?
Dude, listen!
At some point in your life, it will be too late to make excuses for yourself. If you are pushing 81 years of age and can barely walk, then you will most certainly beat yourself up with a baseball bat for not even having tried.
But at that stage in your life, the opportunity will be over. You had your chance!
Think about this: your time is NOW... and you will never get this chance again because you only live once.
And guess what: you won't see most women you want to talk to ever again anyway if you don't open your mouth right then and there. They will just walk past you and then disappear forever.
So, the first step towards mastering the art of meeting and approaching women is to overcome your internal fear, also called approach anxiety.
Then, you will have to learn the methods and techniques that actually work when you want to approach and strike up a conversation with a woman.
Here's one of my favorites: Whenever you see a woman you would like to meet, just wait for her to walk past you. When she is close, just get her attention and to stop by saying "HEY! ... c'mere for a second".
Then say: "Hey listen ... I need a female opinion about something. Would you EVER ... get some guy's name tattooed on you? I'm telling you my little sister desperately wants one ... not from me though *evil grin* ... " and make up your own little story here.
I have tested this many many times on the street, in coffee shops, in malls and in clubs...and it works every single time.
I have done all the hard work for you...all you have to do is use it.
Now go figure! http://www.playboyskool.com?a_aid=the_clash_1977

About the Author
Nick Shane is a street-smart Dating-Expert and author of the book "Playboyskool" and several other products that help regular guys like YOU become more successful with women and dating. Get his FREE online Dating Tips newsletter at http://www.playboyskool.com?a_aid=the_clash_1977

Never Buy A Woman A Drink by Nick Shane

Never Buy A Woman A Drink
When was the last time you bought an attractive woman you would like to meet a drink? Did she think that you were a really kind guy and that this was a nice gesture? I bet sweetheart. Did you get her number? Don't think so!
You see, every guy thinks that if he wants to meet a woman, the best way to do this is by asking her is she wants a drink.
I mean c'mon man, get a grip. Why does every guy think this actually works?
First of all, you were not the only man in this world that came up with that brilliant idea. 9 in 10 guys have had the exact same idea before you and guess what? They still use it as their main technique to introduce themselves.
But listen, it doesn't work!
She will not think that you are sexy, interesting or somebody she would like to go on a date with. When you walk over there and say "Hi there ... I just wanted to say that you are really cute, can I offer you a drink or something?" then she will think "GOD, not another one"
Attractive women get approached all the time, and most of the times they get offered a drink from random guys. Do they like to get free drinks? You bet! Hey, if a guy is stupid enough to buy a woman a drink in the first minute of talking to her, she might as well take it.
Now look, what makes you think that you will have a chance with that beautiful woman over there, if you are the 7th guy on that night who wants to offer her a drink. It doesn't make you special, it doesn't make you stand out and certainly doesn't give her that gut level emotion called attraction towards you.
If you want to become successful with women and dating, then you need to be different. This is KEY! So why are you still buying women drinks? They should be buying you one. So here's a rule of thumb: Do not chase women. They should be chasing you!
Next time you are talking to a very beautiful woman and she says "I'm thirsty, will you buy me a drink?" you better say "Hmm ... nah, but you can buy me one".
Remember: An attractive woman has heard it all before. Most guys that approach her are nice, polite and needy. They make it really obvious that they are after her right away, either buy telling her how beautiful she is, what her name is or by buying her a drink right away.
Do women like men that are easy to get? No! Where's the fun in that? They want a challenge, not a wimp.
Attractive women are not used to chasing after guys, they are used to guys chasing after them. And that's exactly why you need to be different. If you are, you come off as an interesting and rare man ... and she will get curious.
So if you want to get a beautiful woman attracted to you instantly, just say "Soo ... you gonna buy me a drink? I let ya kiss my cheek but only if you're nice".
This will make her go "ahh you're soo cheeky!" hit you on the arm ... and the game in on.
Keep it up, and don't forget to practice! http://www.playboyskool.com?a_aid=the_clash_1977

About the Author
Nick Shane is a street-smart Dating-Expert and author of the book "Playboyskool" and several other products that help regular guys like YOU become more successful with women and dating. Get his FREE online Dating Tips newsletter at http://www.playboyskool.com?a_aid=the_clash_1977

How To Pick Up A Woman On The Street by Nick Shane

How To Pick Up A Woman On The Street
I bet you see loads of women everyday that you wish you could talk to. You know...the attractive, confident and interesting type but you just know she wouldn't even look twice at you. You may think that you would never be able to meet a girl like this because she is either out or your league or you just don't know what to say to her ... but I do and I am going to show you how you can get her number.
Lets first look at what happens when you see an attractive woman.
First, you think she is wonderful wish you had the opportunity to talk to her. Secondly, you start to think about it, get really nervous and desperately try to build up your confidence get over there and say something to her. But because you don't really know what you should do or say, you watch the opportunity slip away as she crosses the street or drives out of sight and you wish you had gone and spoken to her...even if it was just a "Hey, what's up?"
You must understand there is no reason for not talking to her. Attractive women have men who whistle at her and stare two holes in her ass many times each day.
Women of sheer beauty are sick of men like that...what she wants is an interesting guy that can talk to her without immediately staring at her ass or asking for her number right away.
Attractive women get "hit on" and "asked out" all the time, so what makes you think you can get any further if you are just like everybody else? Remember, you need to be different!
Now listen carefully: the woman you want to meet and pick up at the street corner over there already had countless nice guys come over to her in her lifetime and tell her how beautiful she looks and ask if they can have permission to talk to her. She is sick of these guys.
If you want to be successful and get her phone number you need to have a different approach. Let me show you how:
You have to think of something funny or interesting to say to her. Don't be nice, don't pay her a compliment and don't tell her that you "noticed her from over there and just had to come over and talk to her".
Everybody does that. What you need to do is push her emotional trigger buttons that create attraction. And how do you do that? By being slightly arrogant but funny at the same time...also called being CHEEKY!
All you have to do is open your mouth when you are near her or when she is just passing you ... and continue talking so she stops dead in her tracks. If you get a woman's attention, she will just look at you ... but if you keep talking, she will stop right in front of you. And if you can turn up the heat by being cheeky, she will get attracted in an instant...and get hooked just like that.
So the first thing you do is say "HEY!" or "HI!"...then continue with "Hey listen ... I need your female opinion about something"
This automatically disarms the "oh, not another guy" syndrome in her mind because you come off as different.
Then, you just ask her anything that will make her curious, interested and is a great platform for teasing her to get her attracted.
"HEY! ... Listen, c'mere for a second. I need your female opinion about something. I'm having some difficulties here ... what the hell is the difference between a G-String, and a Thing? I'm supposed to buy this thing for my cousin and I have NO Idea. I think you women are deliberately trying to confuzzle us guys ..."
Just keep playing, teasing and busting her balls until she says "What's your name?" ... that's the point where you can tell a woman got attracted to you, and once that happens she is willing to give you her number if you keep it up being cheeky for another 3-5 minutes.
Being successful in the dating game is very simple ... IF you know how it works :)
Keep it up! http://www.playboyskool.com?a_aid=the_clash_1977

About the Author
Nick Shane is a street-smart Dating-Expert and author of the book "Playboyskool" and several other products that help regular guys like YOU become more successful with women and dating. Get his FREE online Dating Tips newsletter at http://www.playboyskool.com?a_aid=the_clash_1977

Where To Take Women On Dates by Nick Shane

Where To Take Women On Dates
When you got a number from a really attractive woman and want to organize a date with her, you need to be smart. If you want to GET her, then you can't just take her out for a drink, a movie or a nice candle-light dinner. Why? Because it doesn't make her feel that gut level emotion called attraction towards you.
You can't just do what every other guy has done before you. If you do, then you will get what all the other guys she has dated got too: a kiss on the cheek and a new female friend.
And we don't want that to happen at all costs!
So, in order to be successful when it comes to the initial date, you need to do something like most men. Don't spend any money on her...that just shows her that you want to BUY her affection. A very bad idea! It never works.
You see, most guys assume they need to take a woman on an expensive and lavish date for her to like you, with candles and moonlight and everything she has seen in the movies. But women don't get that attraction feeling in their stomach when you do what everybody else does.
That's why she is going on a date with you...to see if you are different! So give her what she wants.
So where do you take her?
Go to the park, tag her and say "you're IT" and let her chase you. Go windows shopping and let her decide what would look good on you. Say "Do you think that bikini over there would suit me? Nah ... I think I'm just a little but too sexy for that don't you think so? *evil grin*.
Try stealing something from her like cigarettes, make-up ... anything and make her fight for them back. If you are playful about the whole thing and just have fun, she will get attracted to you just like that.
Oh, and then, there is tickling. This NEVER fails to attract a girl even more towards you. Don't ask me why but it NEVER fails, as long as you have built up some attraction already.
What about the confidence? Well, you can show her you are confident just by teasing her and jokingly ordering her around. You can show that you make decisions and you aren't afraid of what she thinks of you.
Then there's the surprise element. Instead of saying "Would you like to go to the park? I know, it doesn't sound too good but it can be" try saying "Lets go to the park, I'll even get you some sweets so you don't have to steal them".
Now I know many of you guys will like the sound of taking a girl to a park because its cheap and its true. You don't have to spend a single dime. Does it work? You bet ... where do you think I take all my dates? It's always shopping, then a cup of coffee or the park.
Forget the candle-light dinner, the cinema and your regular bar for the first date. Stick to what works and what is best for creating attraction: The city, coffee shops and the park.
It never fails. http://www.playboyskool.com?a_aid=the_clash_1977

About the Author
Nick Shane is a street-smart Dating-Expert and author of the book "Playboyskool" and several other products that help regular guys like YOU become more successful with women and dating. Get his FREE online Dating Tips newsletter at http://www.playboyskool.com?a_aid=the_clash_1977

Flowers For The Beautiful Bride by Ngo Franz

Flowers For The Beautiful Bride by Ngo Franz

These days there are innumerable options for your wedding day hairstyle. It's not surprising that many brides find it difficult to choose the perfect hairstyle on their wedding day. It's a good idea to return to the traditional style of adding flowers to your hairstyle. Considering the number of modern innovative ideas, the good old style will, perhaps, hold more charm and stand out as unique.
Brides have been wearing flowers incorporated into their hairstyles for thousands of years. The early brides often wore simple clothing, but dressed up their treasured locks with buds and blooms from fragrant flowers. Often, these living tokens were symbols of good luck and properity.
Using simple flowers in a hairstyle works out to be much less expensive than choosing a costly headpiece or veil. So, if you are on a tight budget, don't add up extra expenses. Just get some beautiful stems and ask your hairstylist to include these blooms into your style.
Be sure to carry out the theme of your wedding in your hairstyle. Carefully look at your dress and consider what would best accompany the ensemble. Only use a few buds in order to frame your face and not distract from it. You may wish to do a trial run a few days before your wedding so your hairstylist can create just the look you desire.
If you're going in for an informal wedding, you may want to incorporate flowers in your wedding theme. Some brides use entire wreaths or combs of flowers in their hair to present that personal and informal touch. This is really beautiful during the spring or summer when the air is rich with fragrance and flowers are in abundance.
Consider incorporating flowers into your bridesmaids' hair as well as your own. Instead of carrying a tradition bouquet, have your maids or matrons don a headdress of fresh flowers that match your theme and colors. Many brides have used this option and found the results are simply stunning. Also, do not forget your flower girl when planning flower decorated hairstyles. Often, young girls wear a halo of blooms in addition to carrying a basket of petals.
It would be so beautiful to toss a ring of flowers instead of throwing a bouquet. You will not only personalize your ceremony and reception but also add beauty and elegance to your wedding day attire. The beauty of flowers is that they can be easily sewn into the veil or any other headpiece, if you choose to wear one.
There are many ways to add flowers to your hair style. That's nature's beautiful way to enhance the splendor of your wedding. There are many wedding books and magazines that provide creative ideas and the World Wide Web offers a lot of information. These inputs will help you choose the right flower encrusted style that will highlight your outfit.

About the Author
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